Listen,I'm about to keep it all the way 100 with this post! You see sis, I too have fell victim to the move in debacle.
You know the one where you know you shouldn't be "messing" around with that man but his "human nature" is snatching your common sense. Yeah, I too am a survivor.
Typically, this is seen at a higher rate during crucial times like tax season. But today, we are faced with an all-new dilemma. The quarantine and chill...that never ends!
So let me throw in my credentials so you can understand that I have a PhD. in taking things too far. My journey into becoming boo-boo the fool came in 2012 when I literally moved a guy into my place within 60 days of dating. While the relationship lasted for almost 3 years...it should've ended after 6 months. That relationship single-handily changed the trajectory of my life for YEARS! But I didn't stop there...
About 3 years later I moved, yet again, another hammerhead in my casa. Y'all I literally drove to Columbia, SC to pick this man up and take him back to Charlotte! And I bet you are wondering, "Was he chocolate? Because this is the only explanation as to why you were a COMPLETE fool". And yes, yes he was. Nevertheless, I was drooling at the thought of having in-house schlong. After 4 months of regret, I packed his 2 trash bags and set them by the door, and said BYEEEEE!
As you can see I am not new to this, but no longer true to the foolishness.
So I tell you with confidence, DO NOT MOVE HIM IN! I know you are feeling low, scared, bored, and hell probably even horny; but sis your sacred space is worth so much more than live-in rendezvous.
If we're matching energies, building relationships and securing real love, moving in is the end game not the middle game.
This is an unprecedented time that truly everyone is clueless about how to move forward post Corona. We are feeling things, and people are dying who have never died before. But baby, moving a man in that has not secured your heart, set his intentions with you nor has he committed to anything in over 5 years will not help this situation. Dead the idea sis.
It's time to tap into some self-love. Tap into working on those habits you've been meaning to break. Most importantly, tap into your inner self cause sis she has your back. I believe in true love, soul-mates and even love at first sight. I do not blindly believe, I believe in the action behind those things. You won't have to question what's for you and it does not come with limitations, poor communication, and lackluster commitment.
Hold tight, your king will come wrapped in what you need. "Cue "LeToya Luckett - Used To"